I reported adjustment disorder with depressed mood on my last application- no judgment, please, it was in my insurance file and there was no way around it. No meds, but I sure did need the therapy. I'm headed for the full eval, starting next week.
Anyway, the psychologist's office manager just called and said I need to have two people available the psychologist can talk to about me. Family, colleagues, friends. Problem is, I don't have any of those people. I've hid my issues from everyone, even my spouse.
Has anyone been asked for this before? Is it a deal-breaker? I guarantee my spouse won't have anything good to say about me if I dump this on her now, and I fear for my job if I bring it up there. Seriously, how common is this? What exactly are they after? And would it be better to have the psych nail me on the record for hiding this from everyone (I'm sure she'll assume that's indicative of something pathological) or cancel the appointment and let the FAA go ahead and deny me for inadequate paperwork? I fear a denial is in my future either way, but surely one option must be less bad.
Anyway, the psychologist's office manager just called and said I need to have two people available the psychologist can talk to about me. Family, colleagues, friends. Problem is, I don't have any of those people. I've hid my issues from everyone, even my spouse.
Has anyone been asked for this before? Is it a deal-breaker? I guarantee my spouse won't have anything good to say about me if I dump this on her now, and I fear for my job if I bring it up there. Seriously, how common is this? What exactly are they after? And would it be better to have the psych nail me on the record for hiding this from everyone (I'm sure she'll assume that's indicative of something pathological) or cancel the appointment and let the FAA go ahead and deny me for inadequate paperwork? I fear a denial is in my future either way, but surely one option must be less bad.